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Xbot
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Oct 28, 2005, 7:31 AM

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Need relationship advice

Hey guys.

I've been argueing with myself for the past 5 minutes whether to post this or not. but, I figured, 10,000 heads are a little better than one Wink

Anyway, most of you know I've got a girlfriend. If you don't..Yes, I have a girlfriend.

Anyway, our relationship is literally going nowhere. No kissing, she won't even let me hold her...I was under the impression that after a few months of going out, you'd get to the kissing stage, at least...

Today, I got an offer to go out with this girl. Now, I've been watching her for awhile, as I do all people I meet frequently. I've made observations, inferences...And from my analysis, she doesn't seem to be from the crowd I hang with.

She lives in an apartment. I live in suburbia. She has a kid (she's 16), and of course, I don't. She admits to using cigarettes. I don't use them. From my early analysis, I inferred she has a troubled family - something I'm not ready to get involved with.

But she's also extremely nice. That can't go unignored; she didn't seem to mind when I told her I was far more insane than most females would want. And she could act as a driving force to bring me back into society even further - to expose me to a crowd I've only ever been with once or twice.

What do you guys think? Now note: I'm not 100% positive that she lives in a troubled family, and I'm also not 100% positive that she smokes/drinks. Those are just inferences.

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Master Hacker
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Oct 28, 2005, 7:34 AM

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Sit down and discuss your feelings with your current girl and if she still continues her ways, consider if this relationship is going anywhere, and if it ends, get together with this other girl, check her out a-bit, if all is well go for it.

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Shinysheep
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Oct 28, 2005, 7:36 AM

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Hey guys.

I've been argueing with myself for the past 5 minutes whether to post this or not. but, I figured, 10,000 heads are a little better than one Wink

Well, the kid is kinda odd. But she seems better than the other one. But you have to ask yourself, whom do you like more? The one who wont let you anywhere near her even after a few months, Or the nice one, who may have some problems. Smoking, well.. I dunno. But what do you men, "an offer" ?

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Xbot
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Oct 28, 2005, 7:40 AM

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By 'offer' I mean she asked me "Do you want to be my boyfriend?" She's got a fatherless kid, and to me, that's concerning. I'm bad with kids, I've already told my mother "I can babysit 10 and up, anything below that, and...Well...Let's hope that kid has a strong liver, by the end of the night it'll look like he's hit a few clubs a few too many times."

Kids and I just don't get along. This is only the second year I've gotten along with people my own age - let alone 3 year olds whose major concern is how much barney loves them...you know what I mean?

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Shinysheep
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Oct 28, 2005, 7:43 AM

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By 'offer' I mean she asked me "Do you want to be my boyfriend?"

Dam. Well, what do you say to that. Mabye she thought you were eminmem

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She's got a fatherless kid, and to me, that's concerning. I'm bad with kids, I've already told my mother "I can babysit 10 and up, anything below that, and...Well...Let's hope that kid has a strong liver, by the end of the night it'll look like he's hit a few clubs a few too many times."

Kids and I just don't get along. This is only the second year I've gotten along with people my own age - let alone 3 year olds whose major concern is how much barney loves them...you know what I mean?

Well, thats a problem. I dunno, ask her about that. Tell her you and kids don't get along. See what she says.

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Friday13th
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Oct 28, 2005, 7:50 AM

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huhh....

Well few thisng. hyh why do I usualy start like this ? LoL anyway lets start:)
I have a girl, she smokes but well I dont care about this. If you love someone so mutch it doesnt matter. ( usualy ) So I would say its Your problem not her. Yes its not nice to kiss a lady just few moments after she finished smoking. You just have to w8 some time :P

As for her family. Well you dont live with the family, You live with the girl. I was in a relationship with one girl for 4 year and I have to say that in that time I bearly spoke to her parents maby 5-10 times. So family doesnt matter mutch.

You just have to as yourself a good question -> do You like her and will You be able to do everything for her. If Yes then I gues you should stick with here. If no then start to look for other girls.

And one more thing -> there are more female then male on the world so there wont be a problem to find one that is FREE. :)

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vboy_fasho
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Oct 28, 2005, 8:12 AM

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You should take your time, if your relationship with your current girlfriend isn't working out in the future, you always have an option with girl #2 (If she is single that is). If she is a smoker/drinker, maybe you can help her with that problem. In my opinion, it is more about personality than looks. But this isn't me, it is you so do what you think is right.

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Oct 28, 2005, 8:36 AM

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Xbot, what the hell do you think is going to happen when the relationship gets serious? Dont you think she only likes you to get the kids on a good start? Think about it, she already made 2 huge mistakes by smoking and having children. I mean come on, I know her parents arent paying for her food and items and she probably needs money.

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Oct 28, 2005, 8:46 AM

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I'd say...first, you need to create a moment with your girlfriend, and if you don't know what I mean by that, then your in trouble. One you've got this "moment" then you go 90% she goes 10%(talk on MSN for specs)...if she doesn't go 10% then you are in a dead relationship. Concerning this other girl: If you are from complete inverse backgrounds, then you won't work out either...so you need to look elsewhere (besides if she has a kid, then she's what I would call "used merchandise" and you'll find out that's not good either.

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Dave43
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Oct 28, 2005, 8:59 AM

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Stick with what you've got.

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Oct 28, 2005, 9:21 AM

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all i can say is u dont wanna get caught up with a chick that has a kid... only leads to problems.. trust me...

as for ur current girlfriend... after a few months i woulda thought u'd be tellin us bout ur "sleep overs".... i say u keep tryin with the chick uve got.. she sounds like shes just very shy, and u might be her first real BF.. so its understandable that she might be a bit resistant to sumthing as new as dating...

keep tryin.. and eventually she'll get comfortable around u.. try bein funny and make sure shes havin a good time... Tongue

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Oct 28, 2005, 9:23 AM

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There is nothing wrong with talking to her about some things, just make sure it doesn't start a fight. Calmly talk to her about some things that bother you, if she cares about you she will improve to make you happy.

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She has a kid (she's 16)

Um....? Thats a little weird... Shes had sex with another person, and given birth, but wont even let you touch her?

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She admits to using cigarettes

Thats the most unattractive thing ever.... Smokers... Biggest turn off. *Shakes head with disgust*

If you two are a good couple, you will be able to talk things over, thats one of the things that makes a couple, a couple. I'm pretty good with dealing with girls, since I was grown up with only my mom, and I was just in a big conflict with my Ex, I learned more things than you could imagine from it.

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Oct 28, 2005, 9:30 AM

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I know, drugs are like the hugest turn off. Dude Xbot, I hope you know what your getting into if you say yes..

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Athrin Onu
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Oct 28, 2005, 9:34 AM

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Oct 28, 2005, 10:35 AM

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Bone her.

lmfao!!! woot Athrin!!!!

yeh.. if she has a kid u know shes willing Tongue

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defaultusername
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Oct 28, 2005, 10:41 AM

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bone her in all her holes! Cool

cool song

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Oct 28, 2005, 10:42 AM

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Oct 28, 2005, 10:45 AM

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lets get back on topic.

anyways Xbot. from the way i see it, i would talk with your girl right now, about dating, about her shyness, ect. if things dont go out well... then try to make it better. if you get dumped... well... i dont know. just dont date that other person. she seems evil. and even though she is like kind and stuff. you hate kids, plus she seems kinda....weird...

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Oct 28, 2005, 11:01 AM

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she would need big nostrils, or u,d need a small d**k

cool song

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Oct 28, 2005, 11:42 AM

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Trouble in paradise eh?

*leans against wall and eats apple*

Don't go out with her.

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Oct 28, 2005, 12:05 PM

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hump em and dump em Wink

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Oct 28, 2005, 12:08 PM

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Oct 28, 2005, 12:26 PM

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what a name for a site

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Oct 28, 2005, 12:52 PM

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Bone her.

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If I was Nova I would say something along the lines of;

This is where you went wrong;

1.Got in a relationship.

2.Thinking of getting in another.

3.Thinking of getting in a relationdhip with someone who has a fatherless child.

But then I am not Nova I think you should take some time and think about it , it's a serious decision and probably will have some major effect on your life.

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